More Tidbits of Wisdom

If you haven't gathered already, Epictetus is my favorite philosopher to quote. I just re-read for about the twentieth time "The Art of Living". Here are some of my favorite quotes:

"First, say to yourself what you would be; then do what you have to do."

"Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern, and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours."

"We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them."

"Small-minded people habitually reproach others for their own misfortunes. Average people reproach themselves... There is nothing to be gained in blaming, whether it be others or oneself."

"Do your own useful work without regard to the honor or admiration your efforts might win from others. There is no such thing as vicarious merit."

"You can be justifiably happy with yourself and at ease when you've harmonized your actions with nature by recognizing what truly is yours."

"The trials we endure can and should introduce us to our strengths."

"Don't be concerned with other people's impressions of you. They are dazzled and deluded by appearances. In fact, be suspicious if you appear to others as someone special. Be on your guard against a false sense of self-importance."

"Your happiness depends on three things, all of which are within your power: your will, your ideas concerning the events in which you are involved, and the use you make of your ideas."

"If you want to live a wise life, live it on your own terms and in your own eyes."

"Character matters more than reputation... even if your reputation were really to matter, you're not responsible for what others think of you."

"First know the meaning of what you say, then speak."